While the concept of covenant relationships is common in some cultures and families, it is uncommon in others. In today’s society it is rare. Even marriages have become more like contract relationships than covenant relationships. Perhaps it is because the nature of covenant is centered in the true meaning of a rare set of values like commitment, trust, integrity and sacrifice.
RELEVANCE
The Bible gives us a sense of what a covenant relationship is all about in the relationship of David and Jonathan. Scripture records how “the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul” (1 Samuel 18:1). It adds “the two of them made a covenant before the LORD” (1 Samuel 23:18).
Jonathan and David truly exemplified mutual appreciation, commitment, trust and genuine love. Their relationship was centered in God to the point where God was a very real third party in what could be characterized as a triangular relationship. Each existed loyal and faithful to one another—unconditionally. Their values were congruous with God’s. In such a relationship true freedom and peace can be found because fear and rejection are not included in the equation. They were so closely unified and identified with God’s values and causes and in union with God, that they could be truly united with one another.
One person in whom you can trust as a covenant partner is Jesus. He entered into a blood covenant relationship with you when He died for all mankind; Son of God and Son of Man. His covenant took on power and perpetuity when He was resurrected into eternal life. He will never leave you or forsake you. When inter-connected with another truly in Him, your relationship has the capacity to reflect covenant relationship qualities.
REFLECT AND RELATE
Who do you know that is or can be a covenant partner?
What do you think it costs?
What kind of language and behavior demonstrates and reflects a covenant relationship?
How able are you to trust and commit yourself to such a relationship?
How do you differentiate casual, social and covenant relationships?
REFERENCES
John 15:1-25; 1 John 4:7-19; Romans 13:8-14; 1 Corinthians 13:4-33